ok。well。it's time to say goodbye。
I don't love you anymore。
If you hate me。I don't care。as you like。
However。I wish you will find your own happiness。
After。we belonged together once。
夠不夠?
最后一句是After all。
打錯(cuò)了
1、夕陽(yáng)送你登程,風(fēng)兒送你遠(yuǎn)行,留下的是彩霞晚空。你何時(shí)歸來(lái),月下窗前,雙雙成影?
Sunset sent you on a journey, and send you away, leaving the night sky clouds. When you return, under the window, both the shadow?
2、前者或許還又重逢的可能,但后者卻此生此世永難相見了!有時(shí)候越怕別離,別離就在眼前,越想挽留反而失去的更快。
The former may also meet again, but the latter is the life of this life will never be difficult to meet! Sometimes the more afraid of parting, parting in the eyes, the more you want to retain but lose faster.
3、思憶常會(huì)在夜靜燈昏時(shí)翻開甜酸苦辣也成了一道最凄美的風(fēng)景線,陳舊的美無(wú)法在代謝中泯滅。
Siyi often at dead of night, the light faint opened the sweets and bitters of life has become a most beautiful scenery line, old beauty cannot in the metabolism of devoid.
4、浮云一別后,流水十年間。歡笑情如舊,蕭疏鬢已斑。
The clouds parted, water ten years. Love laughter as the old, the temples have been spotted.
5、沒有一個(gè)完全契合你的人,沒有一段完美無(wú)缺的感情。大家合不合適,大家完不完美,都需要雙方有所付出,有所犧牲,彼此去創(chuàng)造。
There is not a perfect fit for you, not a perfect relationship. We do not fit, we do not perfect, we need to have to pay both sides, and some sacrifice, to create each other.
6、你當(dāng)我是個(gè)風(fēng)箏,要不把我放了,要不然收好帶回家,別用一條看不見的情思拴著我,讓我心傷。
You when I was a kite, or to let me go, or else receive a good home, don't use a look see emotions and thoughts tied with me, let me heartache.
7、我們徜徉過(guò)的小樹林,我們觀賞過(guò)的藍(lán)色黃色粉紅色的花朵,一切的一切,仍然依舊。你什么時(shí)候回來(lái),我們一起再同游?
We have been wandering through the woods, we have seen the blue and yellow pink flowers, everything, is still the same. What time will you come back, we'll get together with?
8、有些失去是注定的,有些緣分是永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)有結(jié)果的.愛一個(gè)人不一定會(huì)擁有,擁有一個(gè)人就一定要好好去愛她。
Some lost is doomed, some fate is never a result of love a person does not necessarily have, have a person must be good to love her.
A day at the mid-night, the boy rides a motorcycle to take a girl to exceed the speed limit to drive, They love deeply each other, Girl:"A little bit slower。
I am afraid。" Boy:"Not, this is very interesting。
." Girl:"Beg you。This frightenned a person too。
" Boy:"All right, that you say you love me。" Girl:"Good。
.I love you。Can you slow down now?" Boy:"Tight hug I once。
" The girl embraced each other him tightly and tightly once, girl:"You can slow down now?" Boy:"You can take off my helmet combine does oneself put on?It makes me feeling uncomfortable, returning interference me to drive a car." On the second day, news***** report way:A motorcycle bumps and destroys on a building because the brake is out of order, there are two people on the car, a death, a luckily survive。 The boy, who drive, knows the brake is out of order, but he didn't let the girl know, will let the girl feel to harm because of that afraid. Contrary, he lets the last time the girl say she loved him, the last time embraced each other him, and let her put on an own 盔 , result, the girl was on the hoof, he died by himself。
In time of a short while, in the common life, the love displayed a myth toward us。 一天夜里,男孩騎摩托車帶著女孩快速行駛。
女孩:“慢一點(diǎn)。我怕?!?/p>
男孩:“不,這樣很有趣。.” 女孩:“求求你。
這樣太嚇人了?!?男孩:“好吧,那你說(shuō)你愛我?!?/p>
女孩:“好。.我愛你。
你現(xiàn)在可以慢下來(lái)了嗎?” 男孩:“緊緊抱我一下?!迸⒕o緊擁抱了他一下,女孩:“現(xiàn)在你可以慢下來(lái)了吧?” 男孩:“你可以脫下我的頭盔并自己戴上嗎?它讓我感到不舒服,還干擾我駕車。
” 第二天,報(bào)紙報(bào)道:一輛摩托車因?yàn)閯x車失靈而撞毀在一幢建筑物上,車上有兩個(gè)人,一個(gè)死亡,一個(gè)幸存。 駕車的男孩突然發(fā)現(xiàn)剎車失靈,但他沒有讓女孩知道,因?yàn)槟菢訒?huì)讓女孩感到害怕。
相反,他讓女孩最后一次說(shuō)她愛他,最后一次擁抱他,并讓她戴上自己的頭盔,結(jié)果,女孩活著,他自己死了。 就在一會(huì)兒的時(shí)間里,就在平常的生活里,愛向我們展示了一個(gè)神話.。
The most painful distance in the worldThe furthest distance in the world is not the end of the world, not the Cape, is the soul of the distance. When two once close to the heart no longer feel the warmth, love will come to an end. If there are one thousand reasons to give up on you, but only one reason to love you, but this is the only reason than the one thousand reasons, it is: love only once. So, can we continue the story?There are a number of stories that may have been over for the end of the story. Too late to smile, but also too late to wave, we would like to bid farewell to the. If not, why meet joy; if there is fate, why meet me? It is fate, after the rush to meet you and I turned that into a stranger, to become the most familiar stranger. I know love will not have results, knowing that love will have a heartache, unluckily so put so seriously.There is a voice, never need to remember, but never forget; there is a concern, never have to look for, but never lost; there is a yearning, never nostalgia, but will never stop. Perhaps not really had no lost. Walk on the edge of love and pain, finally consider alone a cup of wine, drunk in the dream to wake up in a dream.Really love someone, maybe just a year's time, but want to miss you, I'm afraid the whole life is not enough? The once spent good time, once once wet my eyes to the truth, once meet the vision of a better future, how can forget?I only forever, never touched, never miss. You know, is the most fortunate in my life; cherish you, I never change the original intention; I leave you, is the most helpless decision. People say there are three: preexistence and afterlife. If I may not be together, I hope the afterlife, then I will be me, you will be you?I will still keep you in no place waiting for you, will still keep you when you don't know what time you think of you; it is the sweetest pain. Stick your face in my chest, the tears already infiltrated my sleeve, you and I were silent for a long time, should not say you finally said that exports, after you turn left to embrace, I smiled and said goodbye, the heart but trembling, I have no courage to ask why you leave, want to say love you have for a long time can I never, only blame himself did not grasp your hand。
Lost you I know how important you are, now that regret is useless, heart although the pain, only themselves to blame hadn't love unsaid, and now want to say love you have to find an excuse, after losing you I breathe or unpleasant. The furthest distance in the world, is not your indifference that you have not mind, but you let go, I will always live in regret, can not forget!The furthest distance in the world, I would not live in regret, can not forget, but you always don't understand my sorrow, I don't understand the lonely heart! The furthest distance in the world is not that you don't understand my sorrow, do not understand my loneliness, but I even pain, also can not cry. Now I to you, also is just a stranger, walk in the rain, you are not in my heart。
中文意思: 世上最心痛的距離 世界上最遙遠(yuǎn)的不是天涯,不是海角,是心靈的距離。
當(dāng)兩顆曾經(jīng)貼近的心靈再也感覺不到溫暖時(shí),愛情便走到了盡頭。如果有一千個(gè)理由可以放棄你,而只有一個(gè)理由繼續(xù)深愛著你,可是這唯一的理由勝過(guò)那一千個(gè)理由,它就是:真愛只有一次。
那么,我們的故事還可以繼嗎? 有一些故事,也許還未開始就已經(jīng)永遠(yuǎn)地結(jié)束了。來(lái)不及微笑,也來(lái)不及揮手,我們就這樣匆匆地告別了。
若說(shuō)無(wú)緣,為何相遇相知相悅;若說(shuō)有緣,為何緣聚緣散緣滅?若非是天意弄人,你我匆匆地相逢之后轉(zhuǎn)身即成陌路,淪為最熟悉的陌生人。明明知道愛了不會(huì)有結(jié)果,明明知道愛過(guò)才會(huì)有心痛,偏偏又那么投入那么認(rèn)真。
有一種聲音,從來(lái)不必想起,卻永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)忘記;有一種關(guān)懷,從來(lái)不必尋找,卻永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)失去;有一種思念,從來(lái)不必留戀,卻永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)停止?;蛟S沒有真正擁有過(guò),也就無(wú)所謂失去。
走在愛與痛的邊緣,獨(dú)自斟酌最后一杯酒,醉在夢(mèng)里也醒在夢(mèng)里。 真正愛上一個(gè)人也許只要一年的時(shí)間,但要懷念你,恐怕用盡這一生也不夠?那曾經(jīng)一起度過(guò)的美好時(shí)光,曾經(jīng)一度濕潤(rùn)我眼眸的真心話,曾經(jīng)相約未來(lái)的美好憧憬,怎能淡忘? 我只有永遠(yuǎn)的珍藏,永遠(yuǎn)的感動(dòng),永遠(yuǎn)的懷念。
認(rèn)識(shí)你,是我今生最大的幸運(yùn);珍惜你,是我從未改變的初衷;離開你,是我最無(wú)奈的決定。都說(shuō)人有三生:前世今生和來(lái)世。
如果此生不得相守,我期望來(lái)生,到那時(shí),我還會(huì)是我,你還會(huì)是你嗎? 我依然會(huì)守在你不出現(xiàn)的地方等你,依然會(huì)守在你不知道的時(shí)間想你;等你,想你,便是最甜蜜的心痛。你的臉貼在我胸口,淚水早已滲透了我的衣袖,你我都沉默了許久,不該說(shuō)的話你終于說(shuō)出口,擁抱過(guò)后你轉(zhuǎn)身就走,我笑著說(shuō)再見心卻在顫抖,我已沒有勇氣問你離開的理由,想說(shuō)聲愛你已很久可我從來(lái)都沒有,只怪自己當(dāng)初沒有抓緊你的手…… 失去了。
拉伊奧斯年輕時(shí)曾經(jīng)劫走國(guó)王佩洛普斯(Pelops)的兒子克律西波斯(Chrysippus),因此遭到詛咒,他的兒子俄狄浦斯出生時(shí),神諭表示他會(huì)被兒子所殺死,為了逃避命運(yùn),拉伊奧斯刺穿了新生兒的腳踝(oidipous在希臘文的意思即為腫脹的腳),并將他丟棄在野外等死。
然而奉命執(zhí)行的牧人心生憐憫,偷偷將嬰兒轉(zhuǎn)送給科林斯(Corinth)的國(guó)王波呂波斯(Polybus),由他們當(dāng)作親生兒子般地扶養(yǎng)長(zhǎng)大。俄狄浦斯長(zhǎng)大后,因?yàn)榈聽柗疲―elphi)神殿的神諭說(shuō),他會(huì)弒父娶母,不知道科林斯國(guó)王與王后并非自己親生父母的俄狄浦斯,為避免神諭成真,便離開科林斯并發(fā)誓永不再回來(lái)。
俄狄浦斯流浪到忒拜附近時(shí),在一個(gè)叉路上與一群陌生人發(fā)生沖突,失手殺了人,其中正包括了他的親生父親。當(dāng)時(shí)的忒拜被獅身人面獸斯芬克斯(Sphinx)所困,因?yàn)樗麜?huì)抓住每個(gè)路過(guò)的人,如果對(duì)方無(wú)法解答他出的謎題,便將對(duì)方撕裂吞食。
忒拜為了脫困,便宣布誰(shuí)能解開謎題,從斯芬克斯口中拯救城邦的話,便可獲得王位并娶國(guó)王的遺孀約卡斯塔為妻。后來(lái)正是由俄狄浦斯解開了斯芬克斯的謎題,解救了忒拜。
他也繼承了王位,并在不知情的情況下娶了自己的親生母親為妻,生了兩女:分別是安提戈涅(Antigone)及伊斯墨涅(Ismene);兩個(gè)兒子:埃忒奧克洛斯(Eteoclus)及波呂涅克斯(Polyneices)。后來(lái),受俄狄浦斯統(tǒng)治的國(guó)家不斷有災(zāi)禍與瘟疫,國(guó)王因此向神只請(qǐng)示,想要知道為何會(huì)降下災(zāi)禍。
最后在先知提瑞西阿斯(Tiresias)的揭示下,俄狄浦斯才知道他是拉伊奧斯的兒子,終究應(yīng)驗(yàn)了他之前殺父娶母的不幸命運(yùn)。震驚不已的約卡斯塔羞愧地上吊自殺,而同樣悲憤不已的俄狄浦斯,則刺瞎了自己的雙眼。
=====================================自戀情結(jié)narcissism自戀(narcissism)一詞最早出現(xiàn)于歐美文學(xué)作品中,直譯成漢語(yǔ)是水仙花。它來(lái)自于一個(gè)凄美的古希臘神話:美少年那西斯在水中看到自己的倒影,便愛上了自己,每天茶飯不思,憔悴而死,變成了一朵花,后人稱之為水仙花。
精神病學(xué)家、臨床心理學(xué)家借用這個(gè)詞,用以描繪一個(gè)人愛上自己的現(xiàn)象。
戀母情結(jié):mothercomplex,Oedipuscomplex:自戀:[zìliàn]1.narcissism2.self-love。
戀母情結(jié)Oedipuscomplex好象是有個(gè)叫Oedipus的人因?yàn)橄矚g自己的母親,而殺了自己的父親。
自戀情結(jié)narcissism有個(gè)叫Narcissi的人,非常喜歡自己在水里的倒影。
戀母情結(jié)(Oedipuscomplex)又稱伊諦普斯情結(jié)。
原義是指男孩親母仇父的復(fù)合情緒。后統(tǒng)指幼兒對(duì)異性父母的依戀、親近,而對(duì)同性父母的嫉妒和仇恨等復(fù)合情緒。
相傳古希臘神話,伊諦普斯王子因應(yīng)驗(yàn)一個(gè)神喻,無(wú)意殺死生父,娶母為妻。弗洛伊德借此論證兒童性心理的特征。
認(rèn)為兒童在在性器期(35歲)男孩出現(xiàn)戀母妒父的情緒,潛意識(shí)中想取代父親獨(dú)占母親的愛,但因父親比自己更強(qiáng)大有力,故心理上常以父親自居,極力模仿父親的行為和態(tài)度。到了青春期,這種沖動(dòng)還會(huì)出現(xiàn)。
直到有了性愛對(duì)象才會(huì)解決。如不能很好地解決就會(huì)成為未來(lái)神經(jīng)癥的根源。
理性和感情對(duì)立的典型,我和我原女友也這樣,我以強(qiáng)烈的責(zé)任感維持著我們的關(guān)系,但最終和你一樣,無(wú)法長(zhǎng)期忍受她的很多不足而分手,但這時(shí)長(zhǎng)期的共同相處使得對(duì)她已產(chǎn)生了親情的感覺。
一方面覺得很難在一起生活的輕松、快樂。但又有太多放不下的過(guò)去(或者說(shuō)是一種習(xí)慣的感覺),很是難受,對(duì)新的感情打不起精神來(lái)。
作為一個(gè)女孩子,你應(yīng)該算是一個(gè)理智型的了。你的分手決定應(yīng)該是正確的,也是極負(fù)勇氣的。
其是不是因?yàn)閻厶?,而是你顧慮得太多,你理智,但也同時(shí)重感情,對(duì)婚姻期望的很完美。不想自己同樣再去經(jīng)歷一次過(guò)去的情形。
所以這次選擇和交往時(shí)就顧慮很多,總想在最短的時(shí)間準(zhǔn)確的認(rèn)識(shí)他,確定是否合適,再?zèng)Q定是否付出你的全部真情。 但這種帶著過(guò)多顧慮的“挑選”很多時(shí)候讓自己很謎失和壓抑。
我和新女友的交往中往往也有這種感覺,但有時(shí)想想,我現(xiàn)在都發(fā)現(xiàn)了她的什么大缺點(diǎn)了?還沒有,反而比我過(guò)去的女友好得多,但為什么我不能像過(guò)去那樣投入。思其根愿,像我們這號(hào)理智型的人,經(jīng)歷了就失去了原有的那份純真了,不想犯同樣的錯(cuò)誤,多少有些防備心理,所以老是覺得自己不在狀態(tài)。
努力調(diào)整下,會(huì)覺得好很多,讓你的朋友。親人幫你參謀,參謀,大家都評(píng)價(jià)好的話,你會(huì)感覺認(rèn)可很多,當(dāng)你拋開其他顧慮,和他在一起時(shí),你覺得快樂嗎,他懂你的心嗎,如果是,就全身心投入進(jìn)去吧,你會(huì)幸福的,因?yàn)槲抑涝绞墙?jīng)歷過(guò)就越知道什么是值得珍惜的。
You will always be a part of me (你將永遠(yuǎn)是我的一部分)You will always be my history (你將永遠(yuǎn)是我的經(jīng)歷)每段往事 鍛鏈我心智 故事通通變歷史即使 喜歡你誰(shuí)亦不知You will always be a part of me (你將永遠(yuǎn)是我的一部分)You will let me to my destiny (你將我導(dǎo)向我的命運(yùn)?)#這句我實(shí)在看不懂,語(yǔ)法也不對(duì)#每段往事 鍛鏈我心智 故事通通變歷史分手都會(huì)有層次 即使失去愛 還有睿智。
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